Little Things That Make A Parent Smile

Every once in awhile a parent gets to see their child do something small — infinitesimally small — that lets them know that somewhere along the way they did things right.  I got that experience tonight.

I had a to leave the house before the kids were done with dinner.  A couple of hours I returned home and the kids both had headed up to bed for the night.  I caught up on some Netflix (there’s this show, about a plane crash on an island, and a dinosaur just at the pilot…) then decided to start heading to bed myself.  As I headed into the kitchen and opened the refrigerator I saw it, something fantastic…

The bowl of udon noodle salad that we had for dinner was put away in the fridge and covered with plastic wrap.  I literally stopped and stared at it for a good 30 seconds, feeling tears of pride welling up in my eyes.  I realized then as I turned to look at the dining table that their plates had all been cleared, put in the sink, and rinsed off.

I wasn’t here.  I didn’t do any of it.  They did.  I didn’t get a text message or a phone call while I was out asking me “What should we do with the pasta?”  It was just done.

Maybe I’m overreacting.  Maybe it really isn’t that big a deal.  Naw… for me it was a little thing that really does mean a great deal.

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About Fresh Start Dad
Early forties, divorced dad of two teenagers, surviving back in the single world. Here to share stories and any survival skills I pick-up a

4 Responses to Little Things That Make A Parent Smile

  1. Pingback: Mindful Parenting and Baby

  2. kimmy0808 says:

    It seems like your kids are has learning to do some house hold chores.

  3. Darby says:

    It’s amazing how much these things matter to us. Last weekend, my 12 yr old cleaned his bedroom without even being ask, much less forced, to do it. I was in shock for 10 minutes before I was able to walk back upstairs. The whole family ran downstairs to see it for themselves. I was so proud.

  4. Lisa says:

    Hooray for self-motivated children!

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